You MAY Need a New TooLkit
I came across this line the other day during my morning reading. It is from Richard Rohr’s book, Falling Upward. I’m reading this book for the second time. The first time I read it was shortly after my husband died. If you know Richard Rohr then you know there is a lot to gather and process in his writing. This second reading is even better than the first. Anyway, I’ve been marinating and coming back to this passage for a few days.
As usual, when something like this takes hold I like to consider how it can apply to my experiences, others’ experiences, and especially how it applies to our wellbeing and even how it can apply to daily life.
The context used in the book is how our second half of life has new meaning and creates all new ways of thinking. People can reach their second half of life at any age, depending on circumstances and what brings them there. I say this because this isn’t just speaking to those of us in the “empty nester” or mid life season. Without getting bogged down in something as deep as what can bring about this second half of life (you should really read the book for the real meat) what about where you are right now?
If I had to guess, you are in a different place than you were two years ago, or even last year. (hello pandemic aftermath that seems to still be showing some effects). You may have children a year older who need new and different things from you, a job change, a different way of thinking or maybe it’s an itch to do something new.
If you want to thrive where you are in this new place, you can’t take your old ways of doing, thinking and managing. As Rohr says, you need a new toolkit.
But what about if you aren’t in a new season just now, how does this apply to you? One of the main things I talk with my coaching clients is goals and habits. Whether great big, giant goals or simply trying to learn how to drink more water or create a nightime routine, or learn to play pickleball, then you are going to have to do some new things to make it happen. And some things will be uncomfortable because they are new and different.
And, remember, learning new things, trying something different, forming new rituals, taking on new challenges are ALL GOOD things. These are the things that keep you going, help you move forward, and give you that vital energy and life.
I came across this line the other day.
That sounds a little strong I know, but think about it. You can replace the word sin. Replace it with stagnancy, boredom, lethargy. That makes it more relatable, doesn’t it? Basically, bad things happen when we stop growing. We have all experienced that at one time or another, right?
What does all of this mean for you? What steps are you considering or already making? Do you know what new tools you need, skills or habits? And don’t be afraid to not know. That’s what google is for! Or a friend or mentor who has already “done the thing”.
OR maybe it’s time to call in an expert. Hire the coach, trainer, teacher, take the online or sign up for the class.
Just make sure you begin.
Live Well!
M-D💚
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